There’s a Bad Moon on the Rise!!!


Some people just can’t move on.  Four years ago, I left my Ex because he tried to kill me.  I got a divorce, moved away, started a new life.  I don’t have one foot in the past and one here, I’m over it.  What a do have is a vindictive jerk who went after my son.  How you ask?  Through X-box Live.  AND the SOB stole the kid’s Microsoft points.   What a jerk.  He had to go after a 13-year-old boy.  Some man he is.  After 58 years, you’d think he’d have grown up by now.  Nope, not one iota.

Just found out he moved back in with the woman he cheated on me with, even though they’ve lived together twice before with disastrous results.  I laughed my butt off when I heard the news.  Some people are gluttons for punishment.  This affects us only because my son’s best friend is the mistresses child.

We have a no contact order except through mail between my son & his father.  The last time he wrote was two years ago and it was full of lies.  My son showed it to me after he read it and said, “Look mom, he’s still lying to me.”  Poor kids.   I guess it must piss the ex off that I’ve moved onward and upward since leaving him and he’s still wallowing in his own crap.

One of the things I have learned from taking classes on Abusive relationships is that the abuser won’t let go, can’t let go and will go to extreme lengths to upset everyone’s lives.  Thus is the life we can expect.  I must say, for a man who wanted NOTHING to do with his first two children, it is surprising.  However, on closer reflection, he threw them away — HIS CHOICE.  We left him, so he can’t let go.  (even though in my mind, all the cheating, lying and abuse was him throwing us away; but we’re talking in his mind)

There is a special place in Hell for people who abuse women and children and I know that is where he’ll be.  He accepts no responsibility for anything he has ever done in life and it is this fact that will be his eternal undoing.  I just feel sorry for him.  I feel sorry for those who are in relationships with him.  And I feel sorry for his mistresses children who have to live with him.  He has always been most abusive towards those who are weaker than he is and there will come a day when that will be his undoing.

For those that I know he was too rough with (Tyler, Austin, Tommy, Ian, Dominick, Duane, Nick, Amanda, Chris, Thomas, Aaron) which I saw with my own eyes, I AM SO SORRY!!!!  He should be stopped; but until he truly hurts someone in a way that requires a hospital stay, he’s free.  I’m only sorry we didn’t all press charges against him for his misdeeds.


Leo & Piper and other character’s

Okay, this is a strange blog post.  I remember when Charmed was still on television and how addicted I was to the Power of Three.  I remember how devastated I was each time Piper & Leo had to be separated for whatever demon/angel/power that be, etc. whim.  I once turned to my ex husband after watching the show and saying, “If Piper & Leo, who are perfect for each other can’t do it, how can we possibly do it with all our problems?”  He naturally laughed; because I tend to get wrapped up in the lives of a character in a really good show or book.  I was right, though.  We couldn’t get through our problems — no matter the love — his abuse was not worth the sacrifice I had to make with my life being in danger.  Leo would never have beaten Piper so badly as to cause injury and try to kill her.

Moving forward — several years — I don’t get so tied up with television as I once did.  I do peek my head up every once in a while after reading a book and wonder why the earth hasn’t shattered, the crowd around me isn’t celebrating or that there is only calm instead of chaos.  I have a few television shows I watch; but not so obsessively as I used to get.  Plus, in general, I just can’t seem to find that type of show that I really like enough to get so wrapped up in.  I’m a big fan of Doctor Who, however.  I love Walking Dead and both NCIS’s and Criminal Minds; but not so wrapped up in the lives if the characters as I used to get.

I’d LOVE to be a companion on Doctor Who for a season; but I’m sure they don’t want a middle aged woman and her son to go traveling around the universe with the Doctor; but a girl can dream.  I was in love with David Tenet, the 10th Doctor and wasn’t so keen on Matt Smith, however, he’s grown on me.  I will miss Rory & Amy, and RIVER SONG; but I’m sure the adventures will continue and be as much fun.  My son would love to play a  zombie on Walking Dead.  Oh and I am really liking the new series on A&E “Bates Motel” which is freaky.  I’m not quite sure I like the new series “Hannibal” though.  I’m a real fan of the books about him; but I’m just not that into the show.  I’m not all that sure I even like where they’re going with it, either.  <shrug>  Maybe it will get better.  We can only hope.

I really enjoyed “The Closer” when it was on and have switched to watching the spin off “Major Crimes” since it is all the same characters except for Brenda.  Perception is pretty good as well.  It is definitely a change for Eric McCormack and he does play the Dr. well.   I recently watched the entire Dead Like Me series and enjoyed that and then watched the one season of Freaks & Geeks and really enjoyed that one, too.  Now, that’s one that should’ve continued on; but certainly launched a LOT of careers. 🙂  (I just love Jason Segel)

Anyway, I’m sure there are a lot of people who feel as I do about the lives of their favorite characters and truly lose themselves in the magic of the moment.  I told you this is a strange post.  Just in one of those moods, I guess.  Ciao!