Some people just can’t move on. Four years ago, I left my Ex because he tried to kill me. I got a divorce, moved away, started a new life. I don’t have one foot in the past and one here, I’m over it. What a do have is a vindictive jerk who went after my son. How you ask? Through X-box Live. AND the SOB stole the kid’s Microsoft points. What a jerk. He had to go after a 13-year-old boy. Some man he is. After 58 years, you’d think he’d have grown up by now. Nope, not one iota.
Just found out he moved back in with the woman he cheated on me with, even though they’ve lived together twice before with disastrous results. I laughed my butt off when I heard the news. Some people are gluttons for punishment. This affects us only because my son’s best friend is the mistresses child.
We have a no contact order except through mail between my son & his father. The last time he wrote was two years ago and it was full of lies. My son showed it to me after he read it and said, “Look mom, he’s still lying to me.” Poor kids. I guess it must piss the ex off that I’ve moved onward and upward since leaving him and he’s still wallowing in his own crap.
One of the things I have learned from taking classes on Abusive relationships is that the abuser won’t let go, can’t let go and will go to extreme lengths to upset everyone’s lives. Thus is the life we can expect. I must say, for a man who wanted NOTHING to do with his first two children, it is surprising. However, on closer reflection, he threw them away — HIS CHOICE. We left him, so he can’t let go. (even though in my mind, all the cheating, lying and abuse was him throwing us away; but we’re talking in his mind)
There is a special place in Hell for people who abuse women and children and I know that is where he’ll be. He accepts no responsibility for anything he has ever done in life and it is this fact that will be his eternal undoing. I just feel sorry for him. I feel sorry for those who are in relationships with him. And I feel sorry for his mistresses children who have to live with him. He has always been most abusive towards those who are weaker than he is and there will come a day when that will be his undoing.
For those that I know he was too rough with (Tyler, Austin, Tommy, Ian, Dominick, Duane, Nick, Amanda, Chris, Thomas, Aaron) which I saw with my own eyes, I AM SO SORRY!!!! He should be stopped; but until he truly hurts someone in a way that requires a hospital stay, he’s free. I’m only sorry we didn’t all press charges against him for his misdeeds.